About Me

Us.


blog
bläg/
noun
noun: blog; plural noun: blogs
  1. 1.
    a personal website or web page on which an individual records opinions, links to other sites, etc. on a regular basis.
verb
verb: blog; 3rd person present: blogs; past tense: blogged; past participle:blogged; gerund or present participle: blogging
  1. 1.
    add new material to or regularly update a blog.
    • write about (an event, situation, topic, etc.) in a blog.



I have been a blogger since 2008.  
I was going through the trials of infertility 
and every struggle it encompasses.  
It effected my whole life: 
relationships with family, friends and especially The Lord. 




in·fer·tile
inˈfərtl/
adjective
adjective: infertile
  1. 1.
    (of a person, animal, or plant) unable to reproduce.
    synonyms:sterilebarren



It started innocently enough.  

Get my mind off the lack of family growth and get a hobby.  
Being an at-home mom to 
our precious girl (age 3 1/2 at the time of my first post), 
I was involved in MOPS leadership 
and Junior League of Pasadena leadership 
while trying to keep house, be a good wife and a mom.  
To say they all were suffering because of my distractions 
would be oversimplifying.


hob·by1
ˈhäbē/
noun
noun: hobby; plural noun: hobbies
  1. 1.
    an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure.
    synonyms:pastime, leisure activity, leisure pursuit;



So - adding a blog to the mix?  
I don't know why that seemed to make sense.  
I would later discover it would be one step of obedience 
that would bring me blessings that I *NEVER* could have imagined.



o·be·di·ence
ōˈbēdēəns/
noun
noun: obedience
  1. 1.
    compliance with an order, request, or law or submission to another's authority.
    synonyms:complianceacquiescence, tractability, amenability;

    antonyms:disobediencerebellion



The Lord was able to reach me 
through my passion: homemaking.  
We were the 3rd owners of a 
late 1940's single-story home in the Pasadena-area 
that needed updating.  
Without much money to spare, 
we started with pulling up 
decades-old carpet that covered original and unkempt hardwood.



home·mak·ing
ˈhōmˌmākiNG/
noun
noun: homemaking; noun: home-making; plural noun: home-makings
  1. 1.
    the creation and management of a home, esp. as a pleasant place in which to live.


I began to scour the internet for design ideas.  
I came across blogs, and was hooked.  
My previous blog has had an incredible ebb and flow 
touching on many surface topics: 
design, cooking, parties, friendships, infertility.  
Meaningful relationships began to emerge 
as the Lord was able to penetrate the distractions and busyness. 


home·school·ing
ˈhōmˈsko͞oliNG/
noun
noun: homeschooling; plural noun: homeschoolings; noun: home-schooling; plural noun: home-schoolings
  1. 1.
    the education of children at home by their parents.



The Lord has taken us on a journey of: 
infertility, private schooling, financial difficulties, 
public school, new churches, homeschooling, 
, cancer, marriage highs and lows, parenting ebbs and flows, 
job promotions, new homes, reconnections and new friends. 
All of these life's events could only be sustained 
by faithfulness, relationships and family.  
What a blessing it has been for us to endure life's trials 
with hope, support and unconditional love.


a·ga·pe2
äˈgäˌpā,ˈagəpī/
noun
CHRISTIAN THEOLOGY
noun: agape
  1. 1.
    Christian love, esp. as distinct from erotic love or emotional affection.



Seeking Refinement will be a public journal of my refinement, 
in all facets of life.  
I am a work in progress, an imperfect 
and highly flawed child looking toward 
her Heavenly Father for guidance, forgiveness 
and hope while faithfully knowing I will always receive unconditional love.  
Thank you for reading.


re·fine·ment
riˈfīnmənt/
noun
noun: refinement
  1. 1.
    the process of removing impurities or unwanted elements from a substance.
    synonyms:purification, refining, processing, treatment, treating 
    • the improvement or clarification of something by the making of small changes.
      "this gross figure needs considerable refinement"
      synonyms:improvement, polishing, honing, fine-tuning, touching up, finishing off,revision, editing, reworking

    • cultured elegance in behavior or manner.
    • sophisticated and superior good taste.

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